献给全天下偷吃的男人

这文章看得我心里酸酸的，送给每一个爱老公的女人

俗话说的好: 再好的鱼肉吃多了，也还是想尝尝大白菜的味道；再好的老婆处久了，也还是想知道别的女人的风韵。所以，如果你下了决心勾引我老公，而我老公也上钩了，我一点也不觉得奇怪。感人故事


男人经不起诱惑，尤其是美丽女人的诱惑，我老公也是个凡人，经不起。仅美丽女人勾引我老公的过程就会让他的生活充满了色彩。不再那么苦闷。

也许他会感觉到对我的伤害，其实只要不以为这是伤害，它就不是伤害。他善意的隐瞒，隐瞒绝对不是欺骗，那就是他不想伤害我。我穷其一生追求的只是他对我的心意，不是任何一种内容和形式。如果你勾引了他，而他发现你就是他一生要找的另一半，我为什么非要横在中间？如果你不是，他终究会回到我的身边。我了解并能容忍他的任何一个致命的弱点，我们一起经历了风风雨雨的见证，有谁能像我一样始终站在他生命最低谷的边缘？

曾经看过一篇文章，写的特别实在，文章名字叫《她现在能给你的，都是我十年前给过你的！》。

我正专心的看电视，他突然说：“我们离婚吧”。他很严肃，不象是跟我开玩笑。浮上我脑海的第一个念头是：他肯定抄股亏大了，或者是得了绝症，怕连累我。我坚决的摇头，油然而生一股要跟他共患难的豪情。

他的第二句话将我打入地狱：“我爱上别人了，对不起。”
“什么时候？”我努力沉住气。
“半年了，是旅行认识的，她是导游，很单纯，人又热情。”也许意识到自己赞美的词语用的过多，他刹住了，愧疚的看着我。
“有多爱？”“十分爱。”
我没有再问下去，问的太细只会让自己伤的更深，不如给自己留点颜面。

回忆跟他在一起的日子，我们很幸福。可是，既然人家已经喜新厌旧，我干吗死不放手呢？我长长吐了一口气：“一切就按你的意思办吧。有人能将你这个祸害从我身边领走，我真是感激不尽。”他惊讶的看着我，他知道我并不是一个心胸豁达的女人。
“其实我对你也有审美疲劳。”你把我看的轻如鸿毛，就别指望自己还是我心中的泰山。

他深感愧疚，决定把家里的一切留给我和孩子。离婚前，他约我一起吃饭，几杯酒下肚，他的话多了起来，他说，他希望得到我的祝福，他还主动说起那个女孩，她朝气蓬勃，跟她在一起，他有被点燃的感觉。想起自己曾经也年轻漂亮，朝气蓬勃，也曾经那样吸引他，我与那个，只是隔了十年的光阴，却被明显贴上了旧爱与新欢的标签。

“她很天真，一点小事也能让她感到满足，跟她去购物，抽奖得了一块香皂；带她去吃北京饺子；送她一块20元的电子表，给她买一个土渣儿饼......她都会欣喜若狂。跟她在一起，我很放松，我可以抽烟抽的屋子里一股烟味，我可以玩通宵麻将，跟朋友拼酒......”他陶醉在自己的幸福里，满眼的温柔。

而我，像所有的黄脸婆一样，精打细算，过问他每一笔开销，买双袜子都要货比三家。我不许他抽烟，禁止他喝酒，更反对他吆三喝四的赌博。

“和她在一起，我感觉心跳加速，干什么都充满力量。”他显然已有几分醉意。
我打断他：“从此以后，我不再是你的黄脸婆，不再是你不用支付工资的用人。我可以节省为你熨衣服配领带的时间，来打扮自己；我可以节省下为你买衣物的钱，给自己挑几件拿的出手的时装；我可以不用绞尽脑汁地搜索鱼的N种做法，不用讨好你的胃，想吃饭我就做，不想做饭，我可以带女儿去吃快餐；我可以不再担心你抽烟伤了肺，喝酒伤了肝；我不再为你洗吐的一塌糊涂的被单；不用在你醉了酒，睡在街边某个角落时，一边哭一边满大街的找；我可以不用再操心你老家的亲戚今天谁做寿，明天谁娶媳妇，不用再每个月给你爸妈寄生活费；不用每年跟你坐半天的车，提着大包小包走十多里山路，只为陪你父母吃顿年夜饭.....是啊，离婚，真是太好了！”说完这些，我泪如泉涌，而他则楞楞的看着我，我一直都表现的很冷静，可是，一点酒精就把我的内心出卖了。三十多岁的女人，谁不在乎自己经营多年的婚姻？ 我又笑起来：“离吧，离了看你得意多久，你十分爱她是吧？她也十分爱你是吧？走到一起后，一起生活几年，看你还会不会见到她就心跳加速，她现在能给你的都是十年前我给过你的，你就折腾去吧！等你折腾够了就会发现，你只是把我们走过的路又重复走了一遍而已。” “你醉了？”他有些紧张的看着我。

“我没有天真单纯过吗？我没有年轻美丽过吗？我把你送的一只铜戒指、一本书、一枚书签视若珍宝，冒着严寒为你织手套。我也十分爱过，可是走进婚姻，女人的角色就复杂了，在爱的同时，有了很多责任。他不可能再十分专注的爱一个人，她要从这十分爱中分出一分爱公公婆婆，又要从中分出一分来爱自己的父母，还要从中分一分来爱孩子。十分的爱经过婚姻的洗礼，就只剩下了七分。当另一份十分的爱袭击她的幸福时，她就无以抵挡......”

最终，我们没有离婚，他改变了主意。他说我清醒的时候没有醉酒的时候理智，也没有醉酒的时候聪明．．．
谢谢某人，勾引我老公。
谢谢某人，洒脱，解脱。

罪孽深重

圣诞节真是个“佳节”。

他让人失去理智，罪孽加深！

那疯狂的大减价，真的让很多人抵挡不住诱惑。

加上这里又有那么多名牌，大减价后的价钱含真的会让你傻眼,为之动容。

今天是一年一度的boxing day, 虽然天气很冷，但还是有很多人不管寒风侵袭，凌晨就开始排队了。有些店还会限制能够买的衣服。真的有够夸张！更可怕的是，一些店可以乱到像被抢劫过，鞋子，衣服，包包满地都是，大家买东西好像都不用钱似的，好像东西都是不用钱的。但认真一看，有些东西convert后其实还是有点贵，至少对我来说是贵的。

还真得有点爽自己有点自知之明.hehe

今年我还是没去见识这些疯狂事迹，只是在网路上游览。光是网上购物也是有够可怕的！天气不好，很多人也懒得出去，所以大部分都是在网上购物。我还真的是低估了女人购物的本事，之前没做好准备功夫，想要的东西一下子就被扫光光了。再不然就是没有我的size!在网上逛了那么久一无所获含真是没趣！害我浪费了那么多时间！

不过，刚刚晚饭后一个小时就让我破诫了。原本已打算收身养性的我又再一次的抵挡不住诱惑，走去clarks website 看了看，竟然有几个相中的，就这样，本小姐阔出去了，买了两双鞋！当下是痛快的，可是看看这个月的花费不禁让我觉得有点自责了。哎~

我要控制我自己啊！

Merry Merry Christmas!!!

Had an early christmas celebration in three countries last week. Each different countries had different decorations but the way they celebrate it, with christmas tree, lovelight lights deco, lovely stall selling lovely ornaments, foods, pastries, hot drinks.....You can definitely feel the joy and warmth bring by the local people. I still remember the christmas songs that I heard from the choir singing in front of Residentplaz.

I guess I will be missing another Boxing day this year. Need to watch my budget and put more effort on something else.

This morning, I glanced through a friend's facebook photo album.I was so jealous that she is graduated already. When's my turn? I'm thinking. I wanna pass through this soon. I wanna put on that robe, hold the certificates and celebrate the joyious momet with my beloved!

So, hang in there. I will be the next soon. Wheee~

Anyway here are a couples of pictures that I would like to share with all of you.It's all about christmas. haha. Two years of celebrating cold christmas here, I started to miss those years when I celebrated it in Malaysia. Miss the lovely decorations is ech shopping centre. All of them are really pretty and full of christmas feel. Miss the time I celebrate with my family, sitting down in the cafe and listening to christmas songs together with good food and we countdown during christmas eve. Watch the fire works and the next day, mum would definitely bought each of us a piece of gift!The happiest moment is when I opened up my eyes the next day, I would see that present next to my pillow.lolz.

Hey, it's us at the Munich christmas market.

Glad to celebrate this with you:)
Nice christmas tree at Munich in front of....
well, I dun remember the name of that building

Christmas deco in Salzburg

Not too big, not too posh.

I like!!!

Hohoho, Santa Claus is bringing all the gift to us!

Hope he will send to each of you with all the blessings:)

X'mas tree in Slazburg

Jingle Bell~Angels

View from the top of the astronomical clock tower of the

Prague christmas market

It was full of people and the decorations are sooo beautiful!

One of the best!!!

Last but not least,

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL

Muacksss

Tang Yuan

It's tang yuan festival again!

This is the second year that I missed out the celebration with my family.Really feel like going home and eat tang yuan with them now.

Snowing here, without tang yuan, without family members around. Just a pile of notes and a cup of coffee accompany me. So sad. Cun wait to go home this coming May. To celebrate the two queen's birthday in my house.lolz.

Found this song's melody very nice. And the chorus is very true.

少一点战争，多一点的单纯。平凡就是幸福。

Bye,love!

Looking forward to more snow!!!

Goodbye People!

Have a great winter break too:)

Cute Animal Pictures

Does any of the pictures above put a smile on ur face?

Those little wonders are just simply adorable.

Life is always full of wonderful things if you keep searching for it.

December- Snowieee Month

Snow visited Nottingham at the end of November.

It was pretty thick this time and we even had a snow war few days ago.

It causes lots of problem due to its early arrival. Trains were delayed, schools were closed, road accident and closure of airport to clear out snow.

It was fun at the beginning cause we never encounter such a thick snow before this. After a several days, everyone starts to have a few words about it.

Honestly, snow isn't fun after all.It looks nice but it doesn't make me feel good about it.I still prefer a warmer weather.

Im staying in Peveril Road:)

Dirty footprints along the street

Backyard

The view across my window

Snowy morning = cold and

dun feel like moving at all

On the way to attend lecture

Hate walking in such thick snow:(

Never ending road,sigh~

Even Mickey get caught in the snow.teeheee:)

Uwen with the giant snow man

Another mini and cute version of snow man

Love love love

The big green field turns into white

The 1st snow man built by me!

It looks kinda retarded cause I have no idea

how to built a snow man.

Ta-DAaaaa

Sushi made by Darren Leom

Yummy!!! Arigato~

Bought this because one article that

i read from the

website saying that peppermint tea may

helps to relieve migraine.

Not sure whether it will works o not.Hmmm

Yo Yo Yo,

Another pack of gummies

This one tastes really good but its hard to chew

Why can't they have cheap and yummy gummies in the UK?:(

A new dishes

Fried minced pork with mushroom and onions

Still need some improvements:)

Exam is coming. This would be the last exam that I would have for my Uni life. More to come when I start working. I know. It will be worse. And stressful. I need to find more ways to cope with it.

她

面对着一个垂死的人，她还是硬着心肠。

只为了一股气咽不下去。

她几时才可以放下心中的刺？放下仇恨？

不再受良心的责备，不再矛盾，重拾希望？

真的很累，很灰心。

内心挣扎到底是为了什么？

上天笑她愚昧，笑她钻牛角尖，把自己框在自已设下的陷阱，越陷越深。

有一天会后悔吗？

会一辈子不安心，良心受责备？

要快乐，要看开，放下。

能做到的，又有几人？



树欲静而风不止 子欲养而亲不待